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Posted: Sat Jan 27, 2007 11:38 pm Post subject:
kenjilina wrote:
yeah it annoys me when i hear western guys in bars in japan talking like japanese girls are trophies!
bmwracer wrote:
I think it applies to all women, not just the Japanese ones.
I can think of a couple of members here who have that mentality.
Trophy girls or wives are true all over the world, not just Japan. My ex-husband treated me like I was a trophy. It had to do with his own insecurities. Some people try to get their own exotic factor (whatever that means to them) through their choice of mates.
Joined: 28 Jun 2005 Posts: 3392 Location: peoples democratic republic of yorkshire Country:
Posted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 8:48 pm Post subject:
Enna wrote:
Trophy girls or wives are true all over the world, not just Japan.
oh i agree. however, as my mother is japanese and obviously japan and its people and culture are a huge part of my life i feel more sensitive to people's behaviour in japan. is this wrong? i don't know.
whenever i visit another country i consider myself a guest and behave accordingly rather than treat it as some place to be conquered. _________________
Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 2785 Location: Lawwwng Guy-islind, Nu Yawk Country:
Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 12:10 am Post subject:
kenjilina wrote:
oh i agree. however, as my mother is japanese and obviously japan and its people and culture are a huge part of my life i feel more sensitive to people's behaviour in japan. is this wrong? i don't know.
whenever i visit another country i consider myself a guest and behave accordingly rather than treat it as some place to be conquered.
Sorry kenjilina I didn't mean to give the impression that I didn't understand or sympathize with your point of view. I do! Just think of the type of guys that go to Japan to 'conquer' the women there as jerks. They are jerks or wankers, while in Japan and they will still be jerks, who probably can't 'conquer' any women back in their home countries and who haven't got a clue!
Joined: 28 Jun 2005 Posts: 3392 Location: peoples democratic republic of yorkshire Country:
Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 10:36 pm Post subject:
Enna wrote:
Sorry kenjilina I didn't mean to give the impression that I didn't understand or sympathize with your point of view. I do! Just think of the type of guys that go to Japan to 'conquer' the women there as jerks. They are jerks or wankers, while in Japan and they will still be jerks, who probably can't 'conquer' any women back in their home countries and who haven't got a clue!
please no need to apologise i totally understand your point of view. i didn't want people to think that i only think this kind of behaviour happens in japan. i know it happens all over the world. i was just trying to get across that it annoys me more in japan for the reasons explained. _________________
Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 2785 Location: Lawwwng Guy-islind, Nu Yawk Country:
Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 10:55 pm Post subject:
kenjilina wrote:
please no need to apologise i totally understand your point of view. i didn't want people to think that i only think this kind of behaviour happens in japan. i know it happens all over the world. i was just trying to get across that it annoys me more in japan for the reasons explained.
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